Monday, October 12, 2009

Compromising

how many of us actually compromise whatever we have for the things we want?

are we really happy when we change ourselves abruptedly, against your will just to make someone else happy? well... we would be happy if the change really does make us happy. do you not agree?

how do you suffice the ravenous need? ignoring it? in hopes it would go away? try something else as a replacement? it would just be a portend satisfaction in which would end up to be a repugnance that makes everything bad.

sating that inner urge is not easy, it would be going up against the current.

we give in and accept a term that serves the best interest for both sides, never one sided. long before you realize, the term would have been broken. was talking to a group of friends from highschool, this phrase seem pretty proper for everyone that's around me as we're going through that transitional period.

"people change and adapt or perhaps alter their perception/principle after going through the lowest curve of their life" -- it can be once, twice or thrice; there's no limit. it all depends on how he gets through them and learn.

and i came up with the next line quite spontaneously, "it's not that we change or evolved, it is just that you remain stagnant while others have improved". surprised that people around you have grown up... but in fact... we are just unaware of things happening.


in someway, i've been stagnant and taking things for granted. i'm taking steps forward and in hopes of changing things in a more positive manner. i'm attempting feats that i've always dislike or would go against.


there have been a few things that i can't accept in life but i've decided to adapt one of the few things into my life as a sign of sincerity and determination.

3 comments:

Alice Teh said...

Some things are worth compromising for. One thing you cannot compromise is your values. Those needed to be upheld no matter what the cost.

Joshua Lee said...

somethings... some not...
i agree alot with the fact that compromising your own values... your own beliefs... i wish everyone could uphold their values in life too...

Anonymous said...

u sound like an asshole!

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